This is really difficult, but we just need to get this sad news over with, so here it goes: We went in for an ultra sound for baby and sadly there was no heart beat. š
Itās called a missed miscarriage. Baby is still in there, but my body doesnāt know itās stopped growing yet. So Iām currently a weird state of limbo just waiting for it to pass.
We are pretty devastated. We have been riding a roller coaster of emotions and I just want to pretend itās not real. But I need to move on to heal. This info needed to be shared with you all. You guys have been so sweet and supportive with your well wishes on our pregnancy š you deserve to know whatās up. We knew that when we decided to publicly announce that we were expecting, that it meant we had to be willing to share this journey with you. And... well... this is the reality of this journey. Itās not pretty, and sadly it didnāt work out this time.
I want to let other women whoāve miscarried, or whoāve struggled with fertility know they are not alone. The pain is real, (emotionally and physically), and just facing the sad-surprise of, āyouāre not having a baby anymoreā ā itās tough. I never want anyone to feel alone, but so often miscarriages are not talked about, and youāre just like suffering through it. I found lots of comfort in hearing the stories of other women whoāve opened up about their miscarriage, and hearing their success stories thereafter gives me hope. š Iāll gather my emotions and write about my experience and post on my website blog. Iāll let you know when I do in case you care to read it, and perhaps that can be a safe place to share your story too. Letās heal each other. Till then, Iām going to try and get out of this funk š© and just focus on all the things we are so grateful for in this life š. Mahalo ke Akua for real. We know itās gonna be alright. šš¼š»
āGo confidently in the direction of your dreams! Live the life youāve imagined.ā āHenry David Thoreau
āTake into account that great love and great achievements involve great risk.ā āDalai Lama
āIn three words I can sum up everything Iāve learned about life: it goes on.ā āRobert Frost
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. It's incredibly difficult to navigate such a painful experience, and your openness in sharing it is both brave and important. solar smash
The next time I read a blog, I hope that it doesnt disappoint me as much as this one.Ā I mean, I know it was my choice to read, but I actually thought you have something interesting to say.Ā All I hear is a bunch of whining about something that you could fix if you werenāt too busy looking for attention
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